HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU
Author: Darryl Stewart
Date: June 27, 2013
Categories: Dating Advice Dating Tips
HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU…
My girlfriend has been very upset over a guy she met just over a month ago. I would listen to her go on and on about this guy, then I realized… he’s just not that into her. I had to tell straight up so she could move on. You have to be able to read the signs. I outlined them for her so she didn’t think I was just being a mean friend. He’s just not that into you and here’s why:
Why He Isn’t Into You:
He isn’t asking you out. This is a major sign, he a guy is into you, and he will let you know by asking you. He will want to take you out on dates. Moreover, if he is into you, he will want to take it further. The biggest sign he isn’t that into you, is if he isn’t coming after you.
He isn’t calling you; he’s just not that into you. He is giving you excuses; claiming that he is too busy or he was out with friends, don’t buy it. When you like someone, you can always make time.
His only communication is though text message or e-mails. By communicating though his means he is trying to avoid actually getting to know you. He isn’t interested in progressing the relationship; he is only interested in moving around the bases.
He tells you that he isn’t relationship material. How much more of a sign to you need? He is flat out telling you that he does not want a relationship. So, if you’re ok with being a sex buddy, go for it.
He doesn’t put any effort into planning your date. He tells you that he would like to hang out. He suggest watching a movie, a quick dinner or “something”, he is telling you he wants to have sex.
He isn’t that into when he making a lot of empty promises. He keeps talking big, but doesn’t take any action. If he can’t come together on his word, then he just isn’t that into you. Its time to move on the next guy.
When he does actually make plans to see you, they’re always last minute. You on the other hand are just so happy that he finally called to make a plan you don’t realize that its selfish, and on his watch. He wanted a booty call and you were first in his little black book.
He avoids conversations that would allow you to grow closer. He really doesn’t want to get to know you better. Avoiding conversations about your friends and family. He doesn’t know about your childhood or past relationship’s
He makes you feel bad about not wanting to get physical. You’re trying to get closer while he wants to get naked. When you don’t want to have sex he will make you feel guilty, trying to push that you’re just not into him. Don’t let that fly.
You’ve been dating for a month and you haven’t met any of his friends. He’s just not that into you. If you’re with someone for a month and you don’t meet anyone important in his life, he is just using for sex and you need to be aware.
When you’re starting to date you need to realize the signs that he is just not that into you. Make not of this signs and apply them to you next guy. If you see that he is just not that into you, you’ll need to get him out of your life and date guys that want more from you than sex.
HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU,Author: Darryl Stewart
Originally from Rhode Island, Darryl Stewart moved west to Los Angeles where he attended The University of Southern California. There he obtained his masters degree in Communications, and now he currently works for a major television network.